Horses Don't Treat Woman Different - Horses Kick & Don't Care that You are a Woman - Why?
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I talk about sexist views, women & men perceptions & how that affects & interferes in communicating with horses. Horses don't care what you think or believe, they care what you do. This seems to be really hard for new owners to grasp. People are convinced that horses are either good or bad, are smart or stupid, are respectful or disrespectful, they have good breeding or bad breeding, all these false facts are WRONG beliefs & set people up to fail and you fail your horse fails.
Mutual Respect - a person with power does not have to use it - a person without power does not have to be a victim - that is why the "respect my space" crap with horses is unfair. Too many horse relationships are one sided & that is why there is not a real shared relationship there is a slave & slave owner relationship & an abuse of power since the there is fear & lack of understanding.
So tired of all the crying women that come here & cry sexism or sexist. I put facts about horses & try to undo the foolishness that rampant in the horse world. A world that is dominated by Women & women beliefs.
I talk about economics & making money & how advertisers use sex to make money. I try & show the connection between how sexes see things & do things differently.
I mention a crazy video of a woman throwing a temper tantrum about her husband not taking her to the lake. This video will get mixed reactions, some will see it from the woman's point of view, others will see it from the man's point of view & others will take it from behavior of both as either good or bad, wrong or right, fair or unfair. That is what happens when people try & apply that logic of thinking/actions of horses.
There is not right or wrong response from a horse until the horse learns what is right or wrong. If a horse is taught to run then running will be the right answer to the horse, if he is taught to stand then standing is the right answer. Both could be right or wrong depending on the situation. You have to see things from the Horse's Point Of View. NOT your point of view as a women, as a man, as a human, has a smart person that knows horses, as an expert or what ever filter you want to apply. ONLY THE HORSE'S VIEW MATTERS - TO THE HORSE WHAT HE SEES IS THE ONLY REALITY.
Bar Rescue Stats I was trying to quote from memory:
- 3 or more motorcycles in front of bar 66 percent women won't enter
- 6 or more bikes it jumps to 88 percent of women won't enter.
- Bars that have 66 percent of women customers makes money ( it brings men in and men spend money on themselves and on women)
- Drinks that are pink or red sell more to women and attract women
- Tempura which is battered & fired, but women do like to order "fried" food so if you call something Tempura women like it better - so bars change menus to say Tempura Chicken rather than Fried Chicken - since is sounds nice, like a horse named Buttercup.
- Marketing & using what you know about sexes to make money? Sexist?
I am sure some idiot will try & say I am promoting men hit women in this video. I can't fix stupid, but if you think a horse has some special rules since you are a woman, you will fail & if you are really stupid you will blame the horse & try to punish the horse, like I see many woman do, by locking the horse up, withholding food, leaving blankets on, not giving water, all with the idiotic reasoning that you are teaching a horse a lesson. For those that don't do that, they do other things like selling the horse, giving the horse away with a label of dangerous, mean or unsafe. All are ignorant & all make horses pay for human false beliefs & lack of ability to admit they are the problem NOT THE HORSE.
Stop defending what you do, stop being a right fighter & admit if your horse is doing something wrong, it is YOU NOT THE HORSE. I really want women to realize their beliefs affect what they do & how they interact with a horse- until they forget what they know or think & deal with a horse on a horse's level, things will not improve.
The response to something wrong should be appropriate if it is so outrageous that it over-shadows the initial bad behavior YOU become at fault. Like using a sledgehammer to kill a fly or burning down your horse to catch a burglary. The woman in the below video I am pretty sure is the owner & manager of Horseforum.com
Here is the link to the video about the crazy women throwing a fit about going to lake - so women get your war panties & assault bras on, let the hate mail begin. :-)
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=add_1374479949#xcDKzgJv89XdvRDL.01
PS: All I get is whining crying emails & comments from women who defend & protect stupidity of other women. NO one wants to address this since they know what they will get. I get hundreds of email from trainers, Men & Women that thank me for pointing this out, & they all say women are the hardest to work with, don't want to hear the truth, get mad & hurt if you tell them they are the problem.